Love : First to True Love

Love : First to True Love

Is that true that the first love could not be eliminated from our memory? According to the study of scientists the memories of first love can be more addicted than any powerful type of drugs. So, when your couple find you as him/her first love you do not need to worry that he/she will forget you. Because there is a fact that many adults are powerless to resist their first love as a drugs for them.

There is truth to say that first love never dies, first love never dies western terms. First love will always be remembered because there the first time as a human being to feel what people often said that love is beautiful, love is sacred, sacrificial love, and some of the attributes of other terms. When the feeling of love, this world was beautiful, sometimes bizarre behavior, his own smile, the work feels light weight to please someone who loved it. Just be advised at the time the feeling is more logic than the logic of instrumental reason.

First love was to come just like that, suddenly, without planning. Someone is sometimes difficult to explain why he fell in love and why the person is. For those who are open he would dare to express her feelings, no matter what the outcome later. For those who are closed and that he/she would bury his/her feelings let only you, he/she, and God know. It could be because of embarrassment, not ready, shrink, or no courage. However the condition is the presence of first love to give its own meaning in life, God's gift of grace.

The beauty of first love does not necessarily end with smoothly, this is happened because the differences in social status, principles, age, and the most fundamental: the belief. Background separation sometimes leave disappointed to the first love, that could be emerge some kinds of sadness, stress, depression, and even attempt suicide. But not all people react to negative, a sense of "pain" can be accepted gracefully, because it is a consequence of falling in love that dare to found the broken heart. Many people's says that first love is not everything. Like a wise man said,  "It doesn’t  matter in your first love, second, even a thousandth of love ... because it is different from the meaning of true love".

The first is the foundation of love as the opening and initial steps to understand and find true love, it is not in the narrow sense. True love does not describe most of what is written like Eric Fromm in his book The Art of Loving which states that love to discuss four aspects: knowledge (knowledge), care (care), respect (respect), and responsibility (responsibility). True love also requires sacrifice, we feels happy when see someone who we loved find his/her happiness than to be force to have it.

Makes the first love as a very wise subject, people will continue to seek and yearn for true love. So impressed in the way sometimes trial and error, the result is often changed to meet the couple that really fits. "Thous art of love is not the first but definitely the latter ... In love we will find the meaning of love and life itself."